Dear Spouses and Families of our Leader Rakkasan Soldiers,
As I prepare to step on a plane today I feel the gloom and sadness of departing from my own wife and family. As I do, my mind immediately turns to all of you who have already said your goodbyes, or are going to today. And as if the pain wasn't bad enough for you, many of you have children at home who had to watch Daddy explain he was leaving for a long time and will be back soon. There aren't any words to make this separation any easier or to make it seem more tolerable. The pain is just there, and the sooner you can put your Soldier on a plane, the sooner you can get into your routine without him, and then the sooner you can forget how much it hurts, all the while marking off the days of the deployment calendar. For many of you, you've had to do this more times than you care to remember. For many of you, this is your first time. In any case, my heart is heavy for you.
Although there is nothing I can do to take away the pain of this absence, as your chaplain, it is my sacred calling to serve your Soldier in any way I can to help strengthen his heart and mind while he is engaged in the fight so far from you. I make a commitment to you to do everything I can to be there for your Soldier and to offer him everything I am able to in way of spiritual and emotional support. I cannot ease your own sadness, but you can be assured that your Soldier will have a chaplain downrange who is caring for him, praying for him, and encouraging him in the difficulty of deployment.
As for you, my ability to support you will be limited. However, you can be assured that I will be praying for you. Furthermore, you will always be able to reach me via email. Let me know if you need me to make a personal visit with your Soldier to discuss anything specific and I'll do my best to make it happen. You are not alone or isolated. There are many people at home who stand ready to support and encourage you. All you need to do is ask.
One of my prayers is that many of our Rakkasans will take advantage of this time to grow spiritually. While we're downrange, I will be offering opportunities for spiritual growth to your Soldier. I will be doing my best to travel to each COP to visit each company on a regular basis--as weather and the fight permits. We will be having Bible studies, and I will begin preaching a series in the book of Philippians. I will try my best to upload some of our sermons to this blog so you can see what your Soldier is experiencing. Also, I will be posting to this blog different articles and devotionals throughout the deployment. I invite you to sign up if you'd like to be notified whenever I share something new. (just enter your email address in the "follow this blog" window to the right).
I know that not all of our families come from the same faith tradition. Nevertheless, this can still be a time for you to grow spiritually according to your own faith. Just like I do for our Soldiers, I make myself available to you to give encouragement in your own pursuit of spiritual growth. Don't lose this time. Make the most of it!
I am so proud of you and your Soldier. I consider it the greatest privilege in the world to serve as your chaplain. May God strengthen you and our Leader Rakkasans as we set out to accomplish our mission.
Sincerely,
Chaplain Stone
pete.stone@us.army.mil